Roberta W. Gutman’s “They Said” is a powerful reminder that both personal and professional success begins with rejecting limiting beliefs imposed by others. Rooted in the Black experience, the poem speaks to the universal struggle of overcoming doubt, reclaiming pride, and choosing growth. It challenges us to reflect on our own path—have we internalized defeat or stepped boldly toward our potential? Whether in life or work, the message is clear: change begins the moment we decide to believe in our worth and take action.
THEY SAID
They told us that we could not be Successful, rich and bright, Because the color of our skin Brought welfare, shame and fright.
They said that all Black children, Just couldn’t make the grades Because we aren’t the smartest, We sing, play sports, wear “fades”
They called us lazy, dumb, thus poor. They said we’d earned our plight! But only when we listened, Did our day turn to night.
We acted out the things they said. We scorned our own who tried. We learned to play the “victim.” We lost our sense of pride.
Then out of Georgia came a King Who some say God did send. We worked and prayed and marched for things Much longed for deep within.
Our pride returned quite quickly, Success became a goal. “I am somebody” – we did shout Who cares what we were told.
When King was called to heaven, Tears could not drown our pain. Did we only lose our leader? Had we lost all that we’d gained?
Some went back to the “victim” state. Some worked more than before. Some vowed to keep His dream alive By entering success’s door.
I wonder which path you did take. Would you be proud to say? If redirection must take place, Why don’t you start today.
Written on the occasion of the Black History Month celebration At Motorola Boynton Beach, Florida | February 23, 1995 | 1995 Roberta W. Gutman